| Biting Basics |
| Toddlers occasionally bite their playmates or their parents not because they're trying to be vicious but because of their natural curiosity and lack of language skills. They don't know that biting hurts people. When a toddler is fighting for a toy or vying for attention, or simply wants his own space, he may use his teeth to express himself. Here's how to manage and discourage the habit. Let him know that you disapprove. Give the injured party more attention. Offer to kiss the boo-boo, ask if she's okay. Then, tell your toddler in a firm tone, "No biting people. Biting hurts." Never punish your child by biting back. Offer an alternative. Teach your child to come to you for help the next time he gets angry. You can teach him to say "I don't like that!" rather than retaliating with his teeth. Don't bite your child in play. If you say 'I'm gonna eat you up!"and put his toes or fingers in your mouth, it's natural for your toddler to try it on someone else. Offer a biting substitute. Give your toddler a washcloth to bite on. Explain that people aren't for biting, but if he gets frustrated, he can bite the cloth instead. |